Tuesday, April 18, 2017

"Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell

Ever since this book was written years ago and became a #1 National Bestseller, I’ve wanted to read it, so I’m glad that I finally got the chance to do so. My older brother told me about this book as I was starting college at BYU and he suggested that I read it. At first I was a little bit skeptical because I wasn’t sure we had the same taste in books. (His favorite book is “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.”) But once he started to tell me a little bit about it I began to be interested. I bought the book from the BYU Bookstore and it has been sitting on my shelf since then.

The first thing that everyone always talks about when this book is mentioned is the 10,000 hour rule. I got the just of the idea before I read the book and specifically that chapter on the rule, but it was so very eye opening and exciting to see this rule come to life in the lives of real people. My favorite example, because I am a musician is that of the Beetles and how they began to play every week in Hamburg, Germany while they were still a struggling high school band.

            They played in Hamburg eight hours a day, seven days a week when they went to play. They had their first taste of success in 1962 but at this point they had already been playing there since 1960, and more than that, with their different trips to Hamburg, had performed together about twelve hundred times. Gladwell refers to this as the “Hamburg crucible,” but it is rather extraordinary, because many bands never even get to perform that much together even in their entire careers.

            Gladwell also shares the story about Bill Gates and how he did 10,000 hours of programming before he started Microsoft because he started programming as an eighth grader in the Seattle area.

            For me, this rule means that there is hope and that I can work hard to become the professional musician that I want to become. I have actually done some calculating, and it’s very rough, because I haven’t been counting hours since I began, but I am approaching having played cello for 10,000 hours and its exciting because I want to be an outlier, like the people talked about in this book.

            Another interesting thing that he discusses in the book is the role of opportunity and how that makes a big difference in an outlier’s life. The example with which he opens the book are the birthdays of the professional hockey players on a Canadian time.
           
            He explains that if you look at birthdays, you’ll find that many of the professional hockey players are born near the beginning of the month during January-March. Why is this, he asks. And then he goes on to explain that in the beginning, when they are choosing who should advance as youth, for every level they start the calendar on January 1st and take everyone who was born in that year. Gladwell explains that because they start this especially at such a young age, they are essentially ignoring half of the candidates, because of course, when choosing teams, they’ll choose the bigger players, those born in January or close to it. This trend because it starts so young, continues to be seen all the way up to the professional level.
            Opportunity plays a big role in being an outlier. He really focuses on this theme a lot throughout the book. It is about working hard, but it’s also about being at the right place at the right time, knowing the right people, and even being born in the right year. One more incredible example that he gives to illustrate this is that many of technology’s brilliant minds were born within years of each other. Bill Gates was born in 1955, Paul Allen: 1953, Steve Ballmer: 1956, Steve Jobs: 1955, Eric Schmidt: 1955, and Bill Joy: 1954.
           
            This was incredible for me to see. Yes, these people are all outliers, and yes, they worked extremely hard to get to where they are now, but even more than that, they were born in that perfect technology time frame when it and were teenagers/young adults when it was starting to really take off. It’s incredible. It’s more than fate that their brilliant minds were born within years of each other.

            This is important in my life because it helps me be realistic. Yes, I can work hard, and yes, I will accomplish amazing things, but there is more on the line than talent and hard work. So I want to keep working but not be frustrated if I am never labeled an, “outlier.”

            I absolutely loved reading this book and it is definitely one that I will read again and continue to think about. There is so much that I could discuss but these are the main points that I wanted to illustrate.

            “Outliers,” by Malcolm Gladwell is an incredible book that I think everyone should read in order to understand business, success, hard work, failure, opportunity, etc. It inspires me to work and be better than I am now.



Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Music in the Philippines

One of the things I loved most about being in New Caledonia when I was there for my mission was the kind of music that they listened to. They listened to American music for sure, but I love listening to their native style of music that they had. It was kind of reggae like in style but the words were in French and I really liked it.

I have enjoyed listening to a few songs from the Philippines in culture class so far. The song about Manila was great as well as the song by “Hey Joe.” I think it definitely has a different taste and flavor from songs in the U.S.

First of all, it is interesting how the language that is used to sing is usually “Taglish” a mix of Tagalog and English. I also think that songs in general are slower and seem more laid back than a lot of the songs that we dance to in the U.S.

I’m not familiar at all with different instruments in the Philippines but if I had to guess I would say that the instruments used in the music is mostly like guitar and ukulele type ones with maybe some percussion instruments. I know that Spain and Spanish has a big influence on colonizing the Philippines so part of me wonders if some of that influence is found in the music as well.
If the Philippines is anything like New Caledonia there is an island mentality that may reign there, so I think that that could potentially come across in the music as well. The songs could sound more laid back and peaceful, rather than fast and upbeat.


I am excited to go and share music but also to have music shared with me as I learn more about music in the Philippines and I’m sure I will come home with songs that I will want to listen to again. 

Thoughts, Sights, Taste, and Touch of Manila.

I have never been to the Philippines, but I did serve my mission on a hot, tropical island, so I do have a couple ideas of what it might be like, at least climate-wise. I also have had a lot of friends that served missions in the Philippines and they have talked to me a little bit about it, but here are some thoughts I have about what it might be like:

Sights: I think that the city of Manila itself will be pretty populated. I expect to see people crowding the streets. I think I will see a lot of cars and motorbikes in the road. I think that there will be a lot of little shops by the streets. I expect to see big sky scrapers that reach the sky. When we leave Manila, I think that it will be more country like. I think there will be rolling hills and wild animals like cows in fields. Oh! Waterbufflo! I think that there will be waterbufflo that we will see in Cebu cause there is a Veggietales song that talks about that.

Taste: The only thing I've heard about the Philippines is that they eat dog. I think my mom had a cousin that served there for his mission and he ate dog. I promised my sister that I wouldn't though. I also imagine that there will be some seafood that we will eat, which I am now ok with thanks to my mission. I also hope that there is fresh fruit: like mangoes and lychee.

Touch: I think that in Manila the touches that I will feel are mostly buildings and maybe some soft feeling clothes from the local flea markets. I also hope to interact with and touch the wonderful people that are there by doing the customs from there and hugging when it is appropriate. I am so excited to connect with these people.


I cannot wait to go to Manila and see all the people and experience different things and different places. 

Friday, April 15, 2016

winter semester is hard.

which may possibly explain why I'm currently downing my weight in chocolate covered cinnamon bears...

haha. But! I will be done with this semester in 4 days time! #yikes That is still mildly terrifying. But it's good too. It's great! And I will be the world's happiest human being in 4 days time. Which is great, cause that's my birthday! But I'm happy now too. I really am! And yes, I'm stressed as all get out, but I am happy and life is good. I'm trying to be better about being happy NOW. Not in 4 days, and not only when its convenient.

I have a to do list for these next several days, and I've been checkin' stuff off! Which is the world's best feeling. Hahah. #IamsuchatypeApersonality But amidst all the to dos and craziness, I've also been thinking about everything that's happened this last year and all the wonderful friends I've been blessed with. It's been so fantastic and I feel so #blessed . And I feel like I have some time to reflect a little at the moment because I'm facebook fasting. haha. Oh the irony...

Anyways, here are some things that have happened this last year!

--I moved and got put with the best random roommates IN THE WORLD. I mean I already knew J-Dawg, and she's great, but Grace, Tasha, and Janine are all great too! It's been great!

--I got to serve in the Relief Society Presidency with some of the greatest, most genuine, and wonderful people I have ever met. I will forever love Elise, Ali, and Stephenie for all that I've learned from them.

--I took a bowling class with Emily and Alexander. It was the best.

--I started teaching cello lessons and got to teach 5 wonderful students, which has been one of the most rewarding things I've ever done. I luuuhh it.

--I played in not only BYU Philharmonic, but also Chamber Orchestra and Baroque Ensemble this year. It was crazy, but so wonderful, and I feel like I have grown so much because of how much cello I got to play.

--I trained for and ran the Halloween Half at the end of October. #itwashard but so good!

--I relearned Elgar 1 and 2 to try out for the concerto competition. And consequently fell even more in love with it.

--I dressed up as a bag of jelly beans for Halloween, and was a finalist in that costume competition.

--I went to a Harry Potter party as Bertie Botts and won that costume contest.

--I met one of my best friends.

--I chopped my hair off.

--I went caroling with my family and it was, once again, my favorite thing about Christmas.

--I survived all of fall semester with my bff thousands of miles away in Jerusalem and was SOOO EXCITED to have her back in January.

--I got an all sports pass and went to almost every men's basketball game winter semester.

--I played a movement of Bach with one of my percussion friends on marimba.

--I decided that I wanted to go to a music festival this summer, so I chose a couple that I wanted to audition for and spent the whole first part of the semester relearning and practicing orchestral excerpts.

--I decided that I wanted to get a French Certificate, so I signed up for French with my brother and some friends. It was one of the hardest classes I've taken (mostly cause I didn't have enough time to dedicate to it,) but it was sooo great.

--I played a second semester in all three ensembles and threw in a trio on top just for funsies. #sooomuchcello

--I learned how to do a backflip at Hang Time.

--I learned to play the Baroque cello, kinda. And I even played in a quartet with friends! Meg, Maren, and Devan are the best!

--I got to play in a trio with Lynds and Alex and it was the best. We played a whole three movement piece by Philippe Gaubert #onparlefrancais

--I learned some of the hardest music I've ever had to play, in the shortest amount of time I've ever had to prepare it, #thirdmovementofConnesson and put it together with Forrest, my wonderful pianist, in not very many rehearsals.

--We started monthly family dinners, and it was the best idea ever.

--I played Bach and got to see different performers play on campus for Bach's birthday. It was the greatest.

--I planned my first surprise birthday party! Well, almost... haha #itwaskindaafail

--I organized and played Bachianas Brasilieras with Katie (who sang) and lots of my super cool fellow cellists.

--I found out that I got into the Brevard Music Festival, a seven week program, in North Carolina this summer.

--I passed my prerecital hearing! And was stoked about it.

--I found out that I got the RA position at Brevard, making the usual  > $6000 tuition, free. #blessings

--I completely ignored all homework and my backpack in general for 3 weeks before my recital. I'm still working through the repercussions of that...

--I had my first, very large, embarrassing musical moment in the Chamber concert at the end of March. #itwasbad

--I gave my senior recital on April 9th, less than a week ago, and it was scary, but so fun!

--And I got to give that recital in my dream (Beyonce) dress.

--I have gotten to see two members from New Cal who are currently here visiting.

--I became an Auror. Just kidding. But I will be one. In a couple days, after I conduct my final!

That's all I can think of for now. If I think of more I'll add on. But I am so very grateful for all that this year has brought. It's been a really good one. It's been a stretching and trying year, but I'm grateful for that! I really am. I love my life! And I'm so grateful for my friends and family.

L'evangile est vrai!

Love, Pono

Monday, February 1, 2016

A change of heart.

So for those of you that don't know me, I am the legit the Grinch/Scrooge/whateveryouwannacallit of snow. It's baddd. Sometimes randomly, I like it but usually I can't stand it. Mostly I can't stand being in it. I dunno, maybs I'm weird. Anyways, this morning, as it was dumping snow I was not having it. Any of it. I woke up early to write my french paper, thankfully didn't see the snow during those couple hours, but then 7am rolled around, and I was starting to think about going to school. Normally I'm on campus by 7:30 at the latest to practice for a bit before class, but from 7- almost 9am, literally all I was doing was talking to myself, trying to convince myself to not go to school; to have a snow day. Mostly cause, if I lived in any other state besides Utah it probably would have been a snow day. #Iamdramaticok haha.

Anyways, from 7-9 I am literally just striding back and forth in my apt. Trying to talk myself out of going to school and into having my own little snow day. *SPOILER ALERT* my responsible side won. But that's not to say I was happily living with my decision. I was a whiny grumpy piece of attitude for most of the day, sometimes outwardly, sometimes inwardly.

And I wish I could say I had counted my blessings sooner, but it didn't happen til about 3:30pm. I was in trio rehearsal and we were playing this heavenly music. (The first movement of if) and it just hit me... I am I being such a grumpy gills about some silly snow? I realized how silly it was. And how I should really try and be more grateful.

Something that has been in EVERY SINGLE Priesthood blessing I've gotten since being home is gratitude. Every person I've received a blessing from has said some short little snippet on it. I think Heavenly Father's up there like, "Here's your sign!" So I would really like to focus more on that. I am so blessed. SO BLESSED. So I hope that I can better remember that the next time it dumps snow and I have to go outside in it. Which, if I'm being honest with myself... Will probs be tonight ;)

Plus, I gotta wear this awesome sweater all day long :) Thanks J-Dawg. So, life is good.

Well, until next time! I should probs catch up on my journal writing before I blog again though...

L'evangile est vraie!

Love, Pono

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Day 20 and 21!

Today is Thanksgiving. So I find it fitting that I am finishing this wonderful "gratitude" experiment. It has been really wonderful actually! In fact, I kinda realized how good this has been as I was saying the thanksgiving prayer over the food and just the bountiful blessings that I realized I have. I'm not a super softie, but I was almost brought to tears as I stood in the kitchen with my three brothers, sister-in-laws, and two nieces. I am sooo blessed! It is unreal. Anyways! Here goes. These last two days.

Day 20. I am grateful for:

1. Cute and fluffy animals. Hah. So I gotta sleep at Kalei and Elaine's the night before last. And I ended up passing out on the couch as we were watching something (that never happens ;) ) hah. But I woke up in the middle of the night to find two kitties sleeping right next to me. And though I'm not a big pet person at all, these guys are cute! And they helped keep me warm.

2. My fro. Hah. So I was thinking about it yesterday as my hair was sooo big after running around in the wind and playing Frisbee. And I decided that I luhh my hair! Hah. And that has been a definite work in progress. Over many many years. In middle school after it went curly... I would legit wake up at the crack of dawn and straighten my fro. And it was the worsstt. Cause it took so long. High school came and confidence increased, and I started wearing it curly. And I've been doing that ever since with varying levels of how I've felt about it. But as of late, I've really liked my fro. I feel like it kinda makes me me.

This hair though... (La plage de Magenta en Nouvelle-Calédonie )

3. Getting to talk to mom and dad on the phone. So I getta see lots of my family a lot cause they live down here with me. But I'm grateful for the chances that I get to talk to my parents at home. I usually try to call home on Sundays and its always great catching up with them. Hearing about everything that's happening at home and filling them in on the detes of my life (school, work, cello, #boysz, etc.) Its just always a good time.

And today on this beautiful Thanksgiving day I am grateful for: 

1. My family!! These guys are great. I love the ones that I getta have down her in Utah with me and I miss my sisters and parents in Washington. These guys inspire me and are my biggest cheerleaders. They believe in me when I hardly believe in myself. And they love me even when I offend and make mistakes. And I just love them for that! They are champions and I can't imagine life without them. #blessed

Pretty sure J.J. took this mid-prayer... #maisbon

Family pictures just after pup got home. (About a year ago.)

Post junior recital. (Luh my family.)

2. Cooking slash baking. So I don't do it a lot. I should actually do it a lot more than I do. But making stuff for Thanksgiving today was so fun! And as much as I think sometimes that it's not very creative and you're just following a recipe, it actually is creative and so fun! And I love that you can make it beautiful! (Hah. I'm so French in spirit ;) ) but I am grateful to be able to create beautiful and delicious food that we can eat!

Check out this beautiful plate of food...

3. I am grateful for these beautiful and incredible people: 

Some of the saints from New Cal standing in front of the New Zealand temple.

Sooo story time real fast... Not to brag or anything, but these people are literally the best in the world. Many people in this picture are new converts (like the beautiful family in the middle of the picture that had just gotten sealed before this picture was taken) or members coming back to activity (like the beautiful family off to the right that had just gotten sealed.)

These people are my heroes. Every January the entire stake on New Cal just disappears because they all go to the temple for a month and just live there. For a month. They go in at 6 in the morning and leave at 6 at night. Doing ordinances for themselves and for their ancestors. They do this every day for a month and when they come home they are literally GLOWING. It's absolutely beautiful. And just inspiring to see. I've always loved the temple, but seeing how much THEY loved the temple and what they did to get there once a year and just seeing how they glowed when they came back made me learn to love it that much more. They would come home and immediately start working and saving so that they could take themselves and their family back to the temple. Combien je les aime!!

Well. Iit's game time with the family! But Happy Thanksgiving to one and all! Life is sooo great! And God is good. 

L'évangile est vrai!

Love, Pono





Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Days 17, 18, and 19.

Whoops. Sorry. That wasn't supposed to happen...

Day 17: that was Sunday.

1. So all I could think about as I was sitting in church on Sunday was how incredibly grateful I am to be able to go to church and be inspired slash receive personal revelation through the spirit by the talks that people give or the lessons that are prepared. And I was thinking about how cool and pretty incredible it was that this one guys' talk could touch me so deeply as it did and could inspire me to act, to change a little bit so that I can try to be better.

2. Visiting teaching. I'm grateful for this! Which is actually kinda exciting cause I have not always been the best vt... And I'm sure that it will continue to be something that I need to work on. But! This year I have tried to be better at doing it. And I know that it is important and of God. I love going and I love being visit taught! It's just the best. And I love when you become good friends with your comp and the girls you teach! It's just one big blessing.

3. Board/card games. They are sooo fun! Especially playing with family and friends. I may or may not sometimes act like a crazy person hen playing uno... It's a problem #maisbon hah. Anyways. They are way fun to play and it's just fun to laugh together and to have some friendly competition from time to time.

Day 18: yesterday!

1. Fun holiday themed parties where you can go hang out with friends and (momentarily) forget that you have life responsibilities. haha. But seriously, so fun. And pretty necessary at this time in the year, when tests, juries, papers, and projects abound. So much fun.

2. Chocolate covered cinnamon bears. So I've had this problem lately... Where I'll just go to the BYU Bookstore and buy a pound of these. And then proceed to down them, usually in one sitting #awk hah. They're just so good. And actually to be fair, I usually share them with a friend or two and then eat them in one sitting ;) hah. But you get the point. And I don't have a picture for this one cause, well, they're all in my belly. #getinmabelly

3. Timer pictures. haha. So this little infatuation started on the mission when you'd want pictures with all the missionaries in them (at district meetings/activities or zone things) and no one extra was around to take them. haha. So you'd have everyone get set up, press the button and then book it to get in. Anyways, these are always so fun. Here's one of the most recent from last night :)

Totem pole timer pic! 

Day 19: today!

1. Short weeks at school. I am so grateful for short weeks at school. Even if they're just Monday off and a four day week. They're the best. And especially when feeling more zombie than human cause you are completely mentally exhausted, it's just nice to have a little break!

2. Christmas music!! Haha. I hope I haven't already used this one in my gratitude list... Though it wouldn't really surprise me if I have. (Currently blasting "All I Want for Christmas is You" at work through my headphones at work.) #Iluhhhit But really. It just makes life so happy. And I feel sorry for the people that only get less than a month of it cause they won't start til after Thanksgiving ;)

3. Hashtags. hah. So this is funny. But legit. And I realize that I use them like a 16 year old teenager. I still blame it on the fact that I was gone when they became a thing so I missed the initial wave and then got home a year after they became cool and started using them... #maB #cantstopwontstop hah. But seriously. They're the best. I especially like using them when hacking someone's facebook. (You can thank Matthew for that :P) 

Well! I am happy! Break is here! The bestttttt.

L'évangile est vrai!

Love, Pono